It all began with a reflection of my mother (which I love and which will not fail to read me ^_^ Hey Kath.) During a shopping trip for my birthday, “now that you have lost so much weight , you do not want to wear more feminine stuff? I’ll see you well with opaque tights, a nice little tunic and boots pretty, right? what do you think? ”
It all began with a reflection of my mother (which I love and which will not fail to read me Hey Kath.) During a shopping trip for my birthday ” m ow that you have lost so much weight, you do not want to wear more feminine stuff? I’ll see you well with opaque tights, a nice little tunic and boots pretty, right? what do you think? ”
While there, I was puzzled! And a little hurt too. As I said (somewhat strongly indeed) I had no problems with my femininity – well thank you! A long time ago that we did not take me for a boy and knew perfectly well who I am (ie all but one of these bitches in tights and tunic that abound these days).
It is also during this shopping party that we learned a vaguely contemptuous nickname Seller learned of these formidable opaque tights without feet that sheathe legs of many of my sisters Montpellier: “ah, you mean leggings, right? Zazzle behind you! ”
Faced with such contempt and after seeing half the girls in the shop wearing those famous “leggings”, I decided carefully to stick to my jeans and forget women’s clothing from wholesaleably.
But there ! A few days later, it’s a work colleague (the archetypal dynamics fifties, fashion and “female”) who is back, with good humor, enthusiasm and big smiles.
– Oh, how beautiful you have become my dear! ( Painful and forced smile Cixi ) Truly, you are transformed, I assure you! ( No, no, it’s nothing, just a little less fat on the buttocks, my brain is still intact, thank you Gods, but it does not clearly account ) I think now that you’re a new woman ( sic! ), you should celebrate it by going to the hairdresser to make you a little young and short cut with wicks. This would go great you well! And you should also dressed differently: small cool shirts, short skirts, leggings, boots … You know my little Cixi, you no longer twenty years ( ouch! ). It would be nice that you’re more feminine, right?
More feminine… This is a word that often comes up in the mouth of my interlocutors lately. Just a few months ago ( read: before my regime ) there was no question. I had to be in those beautiful hair, a nice smile and a golden character, not one that falls into the “female” category priori. And behold, some thirty kilos lighter later, all the women I meet are constantly exhorting me to be more “female”. Bizarre! it required an investigation on my part.
I foolishly thought that the most qualified to judge my femininity, it was men. So I took advice from some of their distinguished representatives. And first, the most honorable of all, my husband of course. Smile vaguely amused and perplexed of it before my questions about my femininity.
– Uh… nothing to say about your femininity honey… not really! In fact, speaking of femininity, you know – um – ok for swimming pool, vegetables and fish for you but pity my beautiful Latin! does not melt everything, huh? Is reasonable, right?
Even perplexity among other males that I was speaking of the subject, the considerations on vegetables and pool in less off course! It found that – decidedly – women were really cowhides them. Such is the nature of women, my poor ‘Cixi, women can not do anything, it’s genetic! I could be very feminine when I wanted ( for once, I wonder if that’s a compliment ) and as I took the trouble, and we could not definitely take me for a boy, even dressed a tracksuit ‘informs moonless night.
To the question: What is to be feminine, almost unanimous response of the assembly!Wear skirts or dresses (not too long but not too short either), Platform shoes (but not too high), makeup (a bit but not too much, it makes “natural”), waxing, have long nails (but not too much, otherwise it’s bitch), have posted and long hair (but not too much otherwise it’s ignored) etc. Alluring but not too wise but not too much … Besides the fact that I find the answers to a banality, it appears that being feminine in men comes down to a loooong series of “slightly but above all not too much! ”
And that men think (those around me) fashion leggings?
Men (shrug) : bah! they dress all like that now!
Cixi (looking nit) : ok, but is that women do you?
– well no ! yes absolutely comfortable but not feminine.
– Well then, why do we present to me as the ultimate in femininity !!?
– The feminine mystery Cixi my little … think well to initiate you there on occasion and explained to us, it will be useful.
And as long as you want, as Augustus representative of the female population (although you do not bear remains obnoxious leggings), could you enlighten us on the following mystery: why you’re other women never happy with what you are? What is true! It is constant throughout history! When you round, you want to be thin. You are flat? You dream how Betty Boop. You are brown? you have to be blonde. You are never happy with what you are.
While – you know it – in the end, men are women like the others. Like you, we choose the companions are not those with the most beautiful leggings or Wonderbras ( although sometimes – admit gentlemen – that you decide faster ) … it will be especially those whose presence, look and smile make us heart beat faster … You know all ladies yet, so why all these constraints?
To me, this issue is a part of the answer to my questions.
Men – it’s a fact, of course, see my first post on the subject – define part of their manhood by their possessions: the bigger car, the bigger house, the latest portable, the biggest PC … more beautiful woman. Moreover, it is not uncommon to see them play among them a little game called “who has the biggest.” And all possessions are good for play: the gas barbecue, toolbox or even the pocket knife (it’s lived Imagine these gentlemen between fifteen and sixty out their wooden handled knife and compare! length or blade edge … laughter guaranteed!)
As we said above, men are women like the others and they certainly do not have a monopoly on the spirit of competition.
Except that in women, the competition is not about what we have (historically, in patriarchal societies, women do not have much) … but on our appearance and our ability to control, constrain our body.
Being feminine for women is not so much a matter of chest, hip or hair, about control and compliance with codes (fashion). Hence the famous leggings which they must sacrifice to be “feminine”. The men and their eyes are just one way of many to count the points. Traitor to my sex, I had forgotten this detail!
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